* make setattr safe for non existent attributes
Handle the case where the attribute doesnt exist by returning a static
sentinel (distinct from None). If the sentinel is passed in as the set
value, del the attr.
* Account for dequantization and type-casts in offload costs
When measuring the cost of offload, identify weights that need a type
change or dequantization and add the size of the conversion result
to the offload cost.
This is mutually exclusive with lowvram patches which already has
a large conservative estimate and wont overlap the dequant cost so\
dont double count.
* Set the compute type on CLIP MPs
So that the loader can know the size of weights for dequant accounting.
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